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Sometimes first-hand stories are worth more than any guidebook, that's why from SugarDaddyLatam® we have contacted 3 sugar babys to tell us about their experience with the sugar daddy in Chile and advise us:
Camila's Story: In Search of Financial Support
Camila, a 22-year-old university student in Santiago, Chile, entered the world of sugar daddies looking for financial support. "I was facing a lot of financial difficulties and a friend suggested the idea of looking for a sugar daddy in Santiago de Chile. I decided to give it a try, even though I knew that in this world you can find anything," says Camila. "I was patient before meeting someone. I wanted to make sure it was the right decision."
Her patience paid off when she met a 45-year-old businessman. He not only helped fund her studies, but also became her mentor. "It wasn't just money. I learned a lot from him, about business, life and work ethics. However, we always kept clear boundaries in our relationship," Camila explains.
Eventually, the relationship came to an end, but for Camila it was a positive experience that helped her to better understand herself and to value her own limits and desires.
Camila's Tips for Future Sugar Babies
"My first piece of advice to any girl considering entering into this type of relationship is to be patient. Don't rush to find a sugar daddy . In my experience, taking the time to get to know the person and understand if there really is a connection and common goals is critical. During the time I was searching, I came across different types of people and not all of them had the intentions or qualities I was looking for. It is easy to fall into urgency, especially when there are financial needs, but patience will pay off."
"My second piece of advice is about the importance of setting clear boundaries. From the very beginning, I was very clear about what I was willing to accept. Not only did this help me feel safe and respected in the relationship, but it also established a framework of mutual respect from the beginning. Boundaries can vary from person to person, so it's crucial that you take a moment to think about your own boundaries and stick to them. This is vital to maintaining a positive and healthy experience."
Anita's Experience: More than Money
Anita, a 25-year-old from Valparaiso, had a different vision. For her, being a sugar baby was more about experience and adventure. "I like older men and enjoy the company of someone experienced and sophisticated," she says. The good thing about looking for a sugar daddy in Valparaiso is that it is a city that breathes love and culture.
Through a well-known website, met a foreign company director with whom she had a series of romantic encounters. "It was an incredibly enriching experience, although it wasn't always easy to manage expectations."
Anita's advice
"For me, being a sugar baby has always been more than just about economics. If you're considering entering this world, I encourage you to seek relationships that truly enrich your life.. This could be through cultural experiences, intellectual conversations, or even learning from your sugar daddy's vast life experience. My relationship with a foreign diplomat opened my eyes to a new way of seeing the world and gave me experiences I would never have had otherwise. So my first piece of advice would be: look for relationships that offer you more than financial benefits, look for those that bring you personal and emotional growth."
"In a sugar baby relationship, it is crucial to be clear and straightforward about what you expect and what you want to get out of the relationship. This applies not only to the financial aspects, but also to the emotional and overall experience. During my time as a sugar baby, I learned that managing expectations is not always easy, but it is absolutely necessary to ensure that both parties are satisfied. Don't be afraid to express your desires and needs from the outset and on an ongoing basis throughout the relationship. This helps establish a transparent and healthy dynamic between the two."
Daniela's story and challenges
Daniela, 30, a resident of Concepción, highlights the challenges she faced in order to find sugar daddy in Concepción. She started as a sugar baby five years ago and had several experiences, some positive and some complicated. "I once found myself in an uncomfortable situation where promises were not kept," admits. However, Daniela notes that these experiences taught her to set boundaries and be more assertive. "It's a complex world. I learned to be stronger and clearer about what I want and what I don't want." Tip: Don't get carried away, if you see any sign that it's a salt sugar don't answer him or meet him again.
Daniela's advice
"One of the biggest challenges I faced was finding myself in situations where promises were not kept. It taught me to be cautious and not to take everything at face value.. My advice to other girls in this world is to be realistic with expectations and be prepared for situations where things don't go as planned. If a sugar daddy promises something, it's important to have a clear and direct conversation about those promises and how they will be kept. This helps avoid misunderstandings and future disappointments."
"Another key learning experience for me has been the importance of setting clear boundaries and being assertive. Don't be afraid to express what you want and what you are not willing to tolerate. If something doesn't feel right, trust your instincts and be firm in your decisions. This may mean walking away from a potential sugar daddy if he shows signs of being a 'salt sugar' or someone who is insincere. Keeping your standards high and not compromising your values is essential to having positive and respectful experiences. Remember, you are in control of the situation and your well-being should always be your priority."
These tips are the result of my own experiences and learnings. I hope that they can serve as a guide and support in your own journeys in the world of sugar babies.